Attraction And Marriage!
A student asked a teacher, “What is attraction and what is marriage?”
The teacher said, “To make you understand this question; you should go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the Rule is: You can go through them only once and cannot return back to pick.”
The student went to the field, in the first row he saw one big wheat stalk, but he wondered; maybe there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one. But maybe there is an even bigger one waiting. Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he started to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he knows he had missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up going back to the teacher with empty hands.
The teacher told him, “This was a mere attraction case. You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person.”
“What is marriage then?” The student asked.
The teacher said, “In order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reached the middle of the field, he picked one medium corn that he feel satisfied, and came back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, “This time you have brought back a corn. You looked for the one that is just nice, and you have Faith and Believe that this is the best one you can get. This is marriage. You can never know what will happen in marriage.
It takes the Grace of God to accept someone with all your heart! And it is the Grace of God when you realize that you got the best!
Remember: Marriage is not a shopping which most People nowadays look for. It is a truly a sacred relationship of trust and faith.