How To Do It?
A man began to give large doses of cod-liver oil to his dog because he had been told that the stuff was good for dogs.
Each day he would hold the head of the protesting dog between his knees, force its jaws open and pour the liquid down its throat.
One day the dog broke loose and spit the oil on the floor. Then, to the man’s great surprise, it returned to lick the spoon. That was when he discovered that what the dog had been fighting was not the oil, but his method of administering it.
You have been trying to make things happen by sheer will and determination. Now try instead, to apply love and consideration to the problem. Its how you do it that is more important.